EPISODE 92

Regulate, Realign, Rise: Embracing Your True Identity

How can shedding limiting beliefs lead to a more fulfilling life?

Let’s talk about something that can radically shift the way you experience the world—identity work. If you’ve ever felt stuck or out of alignment with who you truly are, you’re not alone. So much of our day-to-day reality is shaped by the stories we tell ourselves about who we are, what we’re capable of, and how the world works. And here’s the thing: those stories aren’t always accurate. In fact, most of the time, they’re outdated, limiting, or based on beliefs that no longer serve us.

The truth is, the power of transforming your identity can’t be overstated. When you start to consciously shift the way you see yourself, you begin to see the world through a different lens. Your beliefs shape your thoughts, your emotions, and your reality. If you want to live a life that’s aligned with your true self—one that feels more abundant, joyful, and empowered—you have to start by upgrading the beliefs that are running the show in your mind.

Imagine, for a moment, that you could let go of every limiting belief that’s been holding you back. What would happen if you truly believed you are worthy of success, love, and happiness? What if you embraced the idea that you have the power to create the life you want—without the fear or doubt that often gets in the way?

This isn’t just some feel-good, fluffy concept. This is real, actionable change that starts from within. And it’s not about completely reinventing yourself or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about peeling away the layers of old beliefs, conditioning, and self-doubt, and stepping into the most authentic, empowered version of you.

One of the key parts of this process is learning how to manage your nervous system and emotional triggers. Let’s face it—life is full of challenges, and there are times when we’re going to be hit with stress, anxiety, or unexpected emotional upheaval. The key is not in avoiding these moments but in having the tools to navigate them without losing ourselves. By regulating our nervous system, we can respond with more clarity, patience, and resilience, rather than reacting from old patterns or knee-jerk responses.

Self-care, personal responsibility, and conscious living are vital components of this process. It’s not about waiting for the world to calm down so you can finally feel at peace—it’s about finding peace within yourself, regardless of the external chaos. And trust me, when you start to take responsibility for your emotional and mental state, you empower yourself to create a life that feels true to you, no matter what’s going on around you.

A big part of this work is taking a hard look at your current identity. Ask yourself: What parts of who I am are based on old stories or limiting beliefs? Where am I holding onto an identity that no longer serves me? And most importantly: What would my life look like if I fully embraced the version of myself I know I am—not the version I think I should be, but the one that is aligned with my highest truth?

When we make space to shed the limiting beliefs that no longer serve us, we free up room to step into a version of ourselves that’s more abundant, more joyful, and more authentic than we ever thought possible. And I truly believe that this work—this transformation—is available to all of us. It doesn’t require perfection, just the willingness to do the work and show up as the most genuine version of yourself, day by day.

If you’re ready to explore this deeper, I invite you to reflect on your own identity and the beliefs you’re carrying. What’s ready to be released? What parts of you are calling for expansion? The more we lean into our true selves, the more we create space for a reality that’s in alignment with our deepest desires.

Here’s to breaking free of what no longer serves us and embracing the abundance, joy, and empowerment that comes from living as our most authentic selves.

Take care of yourselves and therefore each other!

XO, Brooke Jean

    • Brooke Jean shares her emotional state on Election Day in the United States.

    • Acknowledging the intense emotions and pressure surrounding the event.

    • She describes her current emotional state.

    • The challenges she is facing during this significant day.

    • Brooke’s typical morning routine, starting with daily affirmations and expressing gratitude for their family and surroundings.

    • The importance of focusing on positive aspects of life to create a better reality.

    • Consciously avoid social media and commit to self-care and regulating their nervous system.

    • Educating others on managing triggers and emotional regulation.

    • The prevalence of projecting personal anxieties onto others.

    • Advocating for personal accountability and coping mechanisms.

    • The need for healthy distractions to prevent burnout and encourage taking breaks from high-stress situations like the election.

    • How one's identity, which is a deep culmination of self-perception, shapes how they see the world, their beliefs, feelings, and actions.

    • Brooke shares her journey of identity transformation.

    • The importance of unearthing one's true self beneath layers of societal conditioning.

    • Discomfort and liberation that comes with shedding outdated identities.

    • The process of shedding outdated and misaligned identities to reveal one's true self.

      • The struggle of trying to adhere to incompatible roles, such as:

      • The corporate achiever

      • Perfectionist,

      • Solely-identifying as a mother, which led to self-sabotage

    • The importance of understanding the identity one wears.

    • How one’s identity impacts thoughts, feelings, behaviors, addictions, and relationships.

    • Recognizing and dismantling limiting identities.

    • Fostering healing, growth, and authenticity.

    • The significant impact of identity on one's life and personal growth.

    • The power of choosing and redefining one's identity.

    • Shedding limiting beliefs and societal roles that no longer serve us.

    • She encourages individuals, especially women, to envision and become their most empowered selves by:

    • Recognizing their worth

    • Potential

    • Resilience

    • The process of identity transformation involves upgrading belief systems.

    • Aligning thoughts and actions with this new identity.

    • Creating a positive perception of reality.

    • Practical tips for journaling and self-reflection are provided, along with an invitation to join deeper identity work programs.

CONTINUING THE CONVERSATION

I hope that you’ll join me in this movement, and that you can authentically reconnect with who you really are. That’s where your essence and your gems really lie.

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