EPISODE 81

Unveiling Your True Self: The Enneagram Way
with Calley Welborn

What if understanding the motivations behind your actions is a path to realizing your true potential, rather than just focusing on changing your behavior? 

This week, I sat down with the incredible Calley Welborn! We dove headfirst into a topic that has been a game-changer for both of us: the Enneagram. If you haven’t heard of it yet, the Enneagram is a powerful tool for personal growth and self-discovery. It's like having a mirror that reflects not just your behaviors but also your deep-rooted motivations and essence. And trust me, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone who's ready to let go of perfectionism and embrace their authentic self.

Calley and I kicked things off by discussing how the Enneagram goes beyond the surface level. Sure, we all know our quirks and habits, but the Enneagram helps us understand why we do what we do. It’s like peeling back the layers of an onion until you get to the core of who you are. We touched on how each of the nine Enneagram types has its unique motivations and fears, and how understanding these can be a real eye-opener.

But here’s where it gets juicy: we didn’t just stop at understanding ourselves. We talked about how the Enneagram can be a tool for letting go of that pesky perfectionism. You know, that little voice in your head that says you’re not doing enough or being enough? Yeah, that one. Calley and I are both firm believers that perfectionism is the enemy of authenticity.

“Instead of wanting people to be like us or see like us if we can expand our perspective to include the way they see We can start to see differently and then we can start to choose differently.” - Calley Welborn

When we’re constantly striving to meet unrealistic standards, we lose touch with who we really are. But when we lean into the Enneagram and understand our core motivations, we can start to embrace our true selves—flaws and all. And babe, that’s where the magic happens.

One of the highlights of our conversation was exploring how the Enneagram can guide us in our career choices. I mean, who doesn’t want to find fulfillment in what they do? We all crave that feeling of flow, where everything just clicks and you’re totally in the zone.

According to Calley, living in alignment with your Enneagram type can help you achieve that. It’s about understanding what truly drives you and then pursuing a career that resonates with your core essence. Whether you’re a natural-born leader, a creative soul, or a peacemaker, the Enneagram can point you in the right direction and help you find a path that feels right.

If you’re like me, you know how incredible it feels to be in that state where everything just falls into place. Calley and I discussed how living in alignment with your Enneagram type doesn’t just create flow for you—it has a ripple effect on everyone around you. When you’re living authentically, you inspire others to do the same. It’s like a domino effect of positivity and fulfillment, and who wouldn’t want that?

Before we wrapped up our conversation, Calley shared some practical steps for getting started with the Enneagram. If you’re new to it, don’t worry—she’s got you covered! She recommends starting by taking a reputable Enneagram test to get an idea of your type. But the journey doesn’t stop there. It’s all about diving deeper, reflecting on your motivations, and being open to growth. Trust me, it’s a journey worth taking.

So, mama, if you’re ready to let go of perfectionism, embrace your authentic self, and find that sweet spot of fulfillment, you’ve got to check out this episode. The Enneagram is a tool that can guide you on that journey, and Calley Welborn is the perfect person to help you get started. This conversation left me feeling inspired and ready to live more in alignment with my essence—and I know it will do the same for you.

Cheers to our journey of self-discovery and growth!

Check out Calley's Enneagram Intro video! DM her on Instagram with the word FREEDOM and get free access.

Join Calley for her Fall Enneagram Essentials Discovery Group September 10th - November 12th in-person in Littleton, CO. Sign up by by September 2, 2024, and receive a FREE Private Consulting Session with Calley!

Connect with Calley

Website: www.undercurrent.life

Instagram: @undercurrentenneagram

Facebook: @UndercurrentEnneagram

LinkedIn: @Undercurrent Enneagram Counseling

Take care of yourselves and therefore each other!

XO, Brooke Jean

    • The Enneagram reveals core motivations, transcending surface-level behaviors.

    • Calley’s unexpected introduction to the Enneagram.

    • The emotional impact of recognizing oneself in Enneagram descriptions.

    • The relentless inner critic: A common struggle, especially prevalent among Type Ones.

    • Enneagram's role in unveiling unconscious patterns and deeply-held beliefs.

    • Cultivating compassion: A crucial step in understanding ourselves and others.

    • Exploring the body, heart, and mind centers: The triad of human intelligence.

    • The pitfalls of over-relying on a single center: Exhaustion and imbalance.

    • The transformative power of engaging all three centers equally.

    • Perfectionism's role in separating us from truth and authentic connections.

    • Childhood experiences: The architects of our Enneagram types.

    • Recognizing perfectionism as a protective mechanism.

    • Leveraging the Enneagram to guide career choices and uncover life's purpose.

    • Distinguishing between depleting work and essence-aligned pursuits.

    • The ripple effect: How authentic living positively impacts the world around us.

    • Self-discovery as a continuous process of surrender and openness.

    • The vital role of curiosity and self-love in personal growth.

    • How understanding ourselves deepens our acceptance of others.

CONTINUING THE CONVERSATION

I hope that you’ll join me in this movement, and that you can authentically reconnect with who you really are. That’s where your essence and your gems really lie.

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